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Boyfriends, Burritos and an Ocean of Trouble

20 May

Boyfriends, Burritos and an Ocean of TroubleNancy Rue

Publisher: Zondervan

Publication Date: 2010

Paperback: 219 pages

Book Blurb:

Secrets? Bryn O’Connor is good at keeping secrets. But when a car accident reveals her boyfriend’s abusive behavior, the truth is unleashed. And it starts a tidal wave of trouble in Bryn’s life: enemies who were once friends, a restraining order violation, and her world unraveled. If that weren’t enough, her grandmother Mim arrives, attempting Mexican cuisine and insisting that Bryn try surfing. It’s all too much! Even Bryn’s habit of daydreaming won’t offer an escape this time. But could a mysterious book she found hold the secret to riding a tsunami like her life?

Stand alone or series: It’s kind of both. This is book two in the Real Life series, however the novels follow the Real Life book (a mystical, physical book within the novel) instead of the girls. At the end of each novel the book is passed on to someone new and they are the person we see featured in the next book.

Why I read this book: I bought the rest of the series before I finished the first book because I really liked the characters, the writing style, and the problems she faced. I didn’t realize until I read the book two excerpt that it would be an entirely new set of characters and problems. The thought of reading about an abusive boyfriend made my stomach turn, but I’d bought it so I figured I should read it. I’m glad I did.

Review:

Bryn’s been covering for Preston—high school hunk, senior, and Olympic swim candidate—for weeks. But that ends the night of the crash. When nurses first discover the bruises Bryn swears she won’t tell, until they accuse her father. Then she lets the world know about her boyfriend’s possessive, controlling behavior and her world comes crashing down.

Suddenly, she’s the victim to her father, sister, the cops and doctors—an object to be pitied and treated like glass. To the rest of the school, controlled by Preston and his friends, she’s the liar and she must be broken at all costs. The only person who treats her like the beautiful, strong woman she is, is Mim—and Bryn does not trust her surf-school instructor grandmother.

While threats are flowing and the trial date is looming, Mim teaches Bryn to surf. At first the waves buffet and bully her just as her former friends are doing, then Bryn learns to ride and finds that maybe, with a little help from God, she can ride the waves in her life too.

I loved the twists and turns in this book. My heart broke for her, but that makes the satisfaction when she finds her strength all the sweeter. Mental and physical abuse from boyfriends and partners is a growing concern. I know I once was unable to understand how someone could let that happen, until it happened to someone close to me. This girl was smart, beautiful, incredible. And at first their relationship was all butterflies and roses. Then small problems began, forgivable issues because she loved him, she told herself. By the time the physical abuse started she was so deep into his way of thinking that she honestly believed she’d done something wrong, that she’d done something to deserve it. Bryn is much like my friend, she could be much like your friend or your daughter or you. What I love about this book is that it helps the reader to understand how to see the signs and how to recover. And it helps you find empathy for those who have gone through this terrible experience.

I’ve found the Real Life books to be educational about common issues facing teens as well as entertaining. This book is not only to be read if you or someone you know has suffered abuse. This book is for all girls. It is a story of strength and hope and love, inspirational to all.

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